Dear BET,

i am in total surprise to this year's BET Awards. After last year's stunt, i vowed to never watch the awards EVER. but i caved in. hehe. and i decided to watch it. When i heard Queen Latifah was hosting it, i thought it wasn't going to be funny at all. but as i watched her with the opening performance, i was dazzled! I LOVE IT! i laughed, i cried, i wanted to rewind it and watch over again! (but i don't have TiVo nor DVR lol) and it had me glued from then on.

What really made the icing on the cake was Chris Brown's Michael Jackson Tribute. I thought he should've done something last year, despite his personal life. Chris Brown did an EXCELLENT job with the tribute! Job well done! and to all the people that say he faked the crying...SCREW YOU! =)

I cannot possibly see someone do a tribute so emotional and so hard-working and so brilliant be a publicity stunt. I almost cried! and if it was a publicity stunt, then MJ's family wouldn't have let him do it. Jermaine wouldn't have gotten on that stage to personally introduce CB for the performance. this performance made the so-called "tributes look like hot boo-boo garbage..

Overall, BET did a GREAT job with this awards show. =)

i had the best valentine's day ever!!! and i hope everyone did too!

but now its back to business. lol

60 things a girl/woman wants but doesn't ask for...

i found this very interesting...

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE IT AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT

31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations flowing...talk about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionatley and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nerveous around her--everything is going to be okay.

60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

i want this song played at my wedding

this music video makes me cry because i want me and my love to turn out like this lol
(sort of lol)

the "look"

ok, this girl on twitter said this about Jay-Z:

@huny jay-z. you're allowed to smile. don't have to do that hard rapper thing anymore. you're 40, you're rich, and you fuck beyonce. SMILE.

and I honestly believe she's right. And I'm not just singling out Jay-Z but its many rappers out here now putting up the biggest front in hip hop history knowing damn well that some of them are true "mama's boys". but they don't show us that side. they show us the:

• hard
• gangsta
• "i don't take sh!t from nobody"

And we all know that you don't. The constant guest appearance on local news stations tell it all! ( not Jay-Z but some of the other rappers you may know of that put on "the look") .

As a STRONG supporter of hip hop, i wish that some of these so-called "rappers" would show us their true side and let that fake gangsta stuff go. Yall getting too old for this.